The friends That he was was a Recovery Addict&Acholics,Which the treble thing was he just retire from ford motor co about 8mos ago and trying to enjoy his retirement which in deed he had is own house with is Mother still living with him I really do feel sorry for his family because being in recovery is a good thing trying to get your life back in order,and sometimes losing some friends in the process.He had a resentment against me .In 1993 when I came thought doors of Narcotics Anonymous,He put me to work fixing his porch tuck-pointing hid porch,and when I was doing the work for him some of his neighbors came over and ask how much would you charge me to do some work for them.In conclude We are selfcenter people and because I made so extra money off his neighbor’s he’s had this resentment ever since.Well not to be cold or well take to your grave that’s ,what happen sometimes in recovery.The part that get me going is that he was making $28hrs about&1600 a week and he trying to squeeze me for a few buck because of the little work I done for his neighbors that’s self-centerness,that the core of our diease
Sorry, don’t really know what your question is. I’m sorry your friend died but he didn’t sound like that much of a friend to you. Keep your head up and try not to think about it too much. Concentrate on your own life and do something with it. Good luck x
I had a friend Die 2days ago,I found out throught other friends of mind.?
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Is this the obituary you wrote for him?
He’s in God’s hands.
So are you.
Let go and let God.
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Sorry, don’t really know what your question is. I’m sorry your friend died but he didn’t sound like that much of a friend to you. Keep your head up and try not to think about it too much. Concentrate on your own life and do something with it. Good luck x
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I have been clean and sober 22 years. I am wondering really what your question is. You are speaking of your friend’s resentment but actually it seems in your writing you have a resentment and feel now that he died, it can’t be resolved. Go back to your steps. Work
step 4 and 5 or you will continue to feel miserable about this person. Maybe you can do something for his family. Remember that we don’t work on another persons issue, only our own for the purpose of gaining a leg up in our recovery. The best to you and I want to give you my condolences because in the early process of grief there is always anger. Try to let go and let God. I hope you have a sponsor to guide you through your recovery
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I’m sure he wasn’t so horrible to you when he was alive that you have to bad mouth the guy after he dies. He can’t respond to your comments and in any case: WHAT’S THE POINT?
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